Blink into the world of quantum physics and you’ll find concepts as mystifying as they are fascinating. Among these, the notion of parallel universes or multiverses stands as one of the most awe-inspiring. While we, at Kashbox Coaching, don’t have a quantum portal at our disposal, we do propose a compelling question: What if we applied the principles of parallel universes to business coaching and decision-making?

Quantum Computing: Calculating Coaching Possibilities

In quantum computing, particles can exist in multiple states simultaneously. Imagine each of these states as a version of you making a different decision or honing a distinct skill. While each choice sets you on a particular path, there are countless parallel realities that remain unexplored.

Business coaching, when approached from this quantum perspective, expands the realm of possibilities. It fosters the understanding that for every decision made, there are multiple outcomes and scenarios to consider. It enhances our four coaching pillars – knowledge, attitudes, skills, and habits (KASH) – by encouraging the exploration of alternative paths and perspectives.

Superposition and Decision-Making: Embrace Uncertainty

In quantum mechanics, superposition refers to the ability of particles to inhabit multiple states at once. Once measured, however, they collapse into a single state. This principle is an apt metaphor for the decision-making process.

Before making a decision, we exist in a state of superposition with various options available. Once the decision is made, we commit to a single path. Business coaching enables us to better navigate this uncertainty, fostering a mindset that not only tolerates ambiguity but embraces it. It equips us with the skills to make informed decisions amidst uncertainty, increasing our adaptability and resilience.

Quantum Entanglement: Strengthening Connections

Quantum entanglement is a phenomenon in which particles become interconnected, and the state of one immediately influences the other, regardless of the distance between them. In the realm of business coaching, we see this as a metaphor for the interconnectedness of team members.

Within an organization, individuals don’t operate in isolation. The actions of one team member can greatly impact the rest of the team, akin to quantum entanglement. Coaching can help strengthen these connections, fostering a culture of empathy, mutual respect, and effective communication.

Quantum Tunneling: Overcoming Barriers

Quantum tunneling describes a particle’s ability to pass through a barrier that it shouldn’t, theoretically, be able to cross. Translated into the business world, this principle embodies the concept of overcoming perceived barriers and limitations.

A skilled coach, much like a quantum guide, can help individuals and teams overcome their barriers to success. Whether it’s a mindset that stifles innovation, a fear of public speaking, or a habit that impedes productivity, coaching can equip us with the tools to tunnel through these challenges and emerge victorious on the other side.

Schrödinger’s Cat: Balancing Risk and Reward

The paradox of Schrödinger’s Cat, which is simultaneously alive and dead until observed, introduces the concept of balancing risk and reward. Every business decision has potential positive and negative outcomes, and the state of uncertainty continues until the decision plays out.

Coaching can assist in managing these risks, aiding in the development of strategies to maximize rewards and mitigate potential downsides. It promotes a risk-aware culture, fostering informed decision-making that balances ambition with prudence.

In conclusion, the quantum world, while complex and mysterious, can offer enlightening perspectives on business coaching and decision-making. By embracing the principles of quantum mechanics – superposition, entanglement, tunneling, and risk-reward balance – we can broaden our horizons, improve our decision-making, and enhance our KASH. As we navigate through our universe, let’s remember there are infinite parallel possibilities, and the potential for success is as expansive as the multiverse itself.

Leadership styles can have a profound impact on the success of an organization or a community. Each leadership style has its unique strengths and weaknesses, and understanding the differences between them is essential for effective leadership. In this article, we will explore the differences between authoritarian, democratic, and laissez-faire leadership styles and how they can impact the people they lead.

Authoritarian Leadership Style

Authoritarian leadership is a style in which the leader has complete control over the decision-making process and the direction of the organization or community. This style of leadership is characterized by a strict hierarchy, and subordinates are expected to follow the directives of the leader without question.

One of the advantages of authoritarian leadership is that it can be effective in situations that require quick and decisive action, such as in emergency situations. However, this style of leadership can also be detrimental to morale and creativity within the organization or community. Leaders who adopt this style may also struggle to retain employees or followers, as their strict and inflexible approach can be demotivating.

Democratic Leadership Style

Democratic leadership is a style in which the leader seeks input and feedback from their subordinates before making decisions. This style of leadership is characterized by open communication and collaboration, and subordinates are encouraged to share their ideas and opinions.

One of the advantages of democratic leadership is that it can lead to a more engaged and committed workforce or community. When people feel that their voices are heard, they are more likely to be invested in the organization or community’s success. However, this style of leadership can also be time-consuming, and decision-making can be slower than in authoritarian leadership.

Laissez-Faire Leadership Style

Laissez-faire leadership is a style in which the leader takes a hands-off approach and delegates decision-making to their subordinates. This style of leadership is characterized by a lack of direction and structure, and subordinates are expected to take the initiative and make decisions independently.

One of the advantages of laissez-faire leadership is that it can lead to increased innovation and creativity within the organization or community. When people are given the freedom to explore new ideas and approaches, they are more likely to come up with new and innovative solutions. However, this style of leadership can also lead to confusion and lack of direction, and subordinates may struggle to work effectively without clear guidance from their leader.

Choosing the Right Leadership Style

Effective leadership requires a deep understanding of the strengths and weaknesses of each leadership style. There is no one-size-fits-all approach to leadership, and different situations may require different leadership styles.

For example, in emergency situations, authoritarian leadership may be necessary to make quick and decisive decisions. On the other hand, in situations that require creativity and innovation, a laissez-faire leadership style may be more effective. In most cases, a democratic leadership style that encourages collaboration and open communication can be effective in building an engaged and committed workforce or community.

It’s important to note that a leader’s personality and values can also impact their leadership style. Some leaders may naturally gravitate towards authoritarian leadership, while others may prefer a more collaborative approach. It’s important to be self-aware and reflect on your strengths and weaknesses as a leader to choose a leadership style that aligns with your values and personality.

In conclusion, understanding the differences between authoritarian, democratic, and laissez-faire leadership styles is essential for effective leadership. Each style has its unique strengths and weaknesses, and different situations may require different leadership styles. Effective leaders are self-aware and reflect on their values and personality to choose a leadership style that aligns with their strengths and the needs of their organization or community.

As we move into the pandemic recovery process, how do you make way for happiness? Let me ask: do you find yourself less happy than you anticipated?

An answer of “yes” to the latter question is not uncommon. What we think will make us happy is often off-base. It might sound like:

• I’ll be so happy when businesses re-open to full capacity.
• I’ll be so happy when we get a vaccine.
• I’ll be so happy when we can return to “normal.”

While these things are wonderful, and for many, a great relief, we commonly overestimate the impact they have on our happiness.

If you were somehow spared a personal loss or trauma during the pandemic, you are still part of the collective trauma. A perpetual fight or flight mode has an impact on our emotional, mental, and physical being. As a result, happiness can elude us.

Stressors, Stress, and Happiness

Consider how we respond to stressors. Our brains function to protect and serve: our primitive brain reacts to protect us from real or perceived threats and our modern brain serves in conscious thought and logic.

For example, the danger of contracting a potentially deadly virus triggers our fear. When we sense a threat (real or perceived), our brain reacts in hyper-drive, bypassing information processing sequences. Typically, the modern brain engages a moment later to gather more information, analyze the threat, and modulate our behavior. However, when our primitive brain remains engaged too frequently, or strongly, survival-based emotions become the norm. This lives little room for happiness.

The factors that influence our happiness are easily misunderstood. Eliminating or changing stressors is not enough. Managing our stress is not enough. To actually increase our happiness, we need to take more action. And it’s worth it: happy people are less likely to have psychological or social problems, are less likely to get ill, and are more likely to do well in their career.

What Makes You Happy?

The past year has been a roller coaster of feelings and emotions, adaptation and change. The ups and downs have taken a toll. Let’s take a quick look at a bit of neuroscience.

Bio-evolutionary theory reveals why we react as we do to stressors. These include family issues, work issues, financial issues, health issues, etc. And, it includes our thoughts around these issues: the future, certain events, particular people. Our stress is the physiological response to the stressors.

The process has three parts:

• Beginning: perception of threat
• Middle: response to threat (dealing with stressor)
• End: response to stress (managing physiological response)

While being mindful of each step of the process is important, the action we take in response to stress is critical to manage our emotional well-being. You see, we are finding that self-care alone is not enough. Nor is grit. Happiness requires compassion, empathy, and connection. And it requires ease.

Ease Into Happiness

What brought us joy prior to the pandemic may not have the same affect. Consider this: how you have adapted over the past year? What was the impact to your social contacts?

Our social interactions dramatically decreased and our personal time increased. As a result, our threshold for stimulation decreased. Returning to the same level of social interaction prior to the pandemic may be overwhelming.

Fortunately, research has found that roughly 40% of how we experience satisfaction—our happiness level—depends on our motivations, goals, and behaviors. This is encouraging: it suggests that what an individual thinks, believes, and does—things within their control—can improve their happiness.

Communities of Care

The Harvard Study of Adult Development tracked 724 men over 75 years, asking about their work, home lives and health. Two groups of men—sophomores at Harvard and boys from the Southside of Boston—were interviewed and tested. Three big lessons were learned:

• The impact of isolation and loneliness is toxic to our happiness and well-being. Social connections are critical. Our bonds are strongest between individuals, rather than small groups (families or teams) or villages (tribes or companies).
• It’s not the quantity, rather, it’s the quality of relationships. The study found that the people who were the most satisfied in their relationships at age 50 were the most satisfied in their 80s.
• Good relationships protect our bodies, as well as our brains. People in strong, trusting relationships are the healthiest in their 80s.

What does this mean today? Waiting for happiness to happen isn’t the answer. We can take action.

Share Laughter

Practice leaning in to relationships and sharing laughter.  Here’s a simple exercise from The Greater Good Science Center to get you started.

• At the end of the day, list the three funniest things you saw, heard, or did that day.
• Describe your feelings about the events: How did it make you feel?
• Explore the circumstances of events: Why was this event funny? Why did this funny event occur?
• Repeat this every day for a week, and allow 10 minutes every day to write out as much detail as possible.

Now, ask someone to share your laughter and confidentially exchange your three funny things. You can share via email, read it out over the phone or video call, and work your way toward an in person exchange.

You see, when we practice laughing at the absurdities of our daily life, we create an opportunity to practice gratitude. By sharing gratitude and laughter with others, we create stronger relationships. We make way for happiness.