How to Find Good Leadership Stories

There are many ways to find good leadership stories. One way is to pick a challenge or lesson you want to teach through story. Then, match the story to the objective. In today’s Internet and social media world, there are many ways to type in a common leadership challenge and search for good leadership stories. Make a list of your most important leadership issues, such as: 1. Envisioning the future 2. Strategic purpose and goals 3. Team alignment 4. Values and corporate culture 5. Customer service and focus How you can teach leadership principles and values through stories of real people in your particular industry? Look for stories about people who implement their core values in day-to-day tasks. Values tend to be vague until you integrate them into stories about actual experiences. Business books can be excellent resources for stories. One highly recommended title is Paul Smith’s Lead with a Story: A Guide to Crafting Business Narratives that Captivate, Convince and Inspire (AMACOM, 2012). Smith, the director of consumer and communications research for Procter & Gamble, includes numerous life lessons from companies like Kellogg’s, Merrill-Lynch, National Car Rental, Wal-Mart and Pizza Hut. Inspire with Emotions Magic happens when you narrate otherwise soulless data into emotional nodes that render an experience to an audience – and a single listener is an audience – that makes the information inside the story memorable, resonant and actionable. ~ Peter Guber, Chairman and CEO, Mandalay Entertainment Leaders who successfully use storytelling know it’s key to establish an emotional connection and stimulate a desire for a different future. Without this connection, nothing happens. Decisions are...

How to Make Leadership Stories Sizzle

The most effective way to influence people is through telling good leadership stories that create emotional buy-in. Most executives and managers know this, but few find it easy to create a story that works. Use plain, simple and direct language when telling a story so its moral point can shine through. You don’t want to clutter the story with lots of descriptive words or too much detail. Let your listeners use their imaginations. Incorporate five key elements to add interest to your story: Surprise: Why is this story unusual? Mystery: What piques our curiosity? Conflict: A main character should face a challenging situation to which the audience can relate. Brevity Use enough words to make the story come alive – but no more. Repetition: Used appropriately, a catchphrase can drive your message home. Explore the 18-minute presentations on TED.com to see some excellent examples of great storytelling. Most TED Talks contain all five of these stylistic elements. Where to Find Stories In the work I do executive coaching people, I’m privy to hearing many stories. I’m sure you are too. You have to develop “story antennae”, and be on the look-out. Potential stories are everywhere, but you may not notice them until you practice storytelling for a while. It’s fine to start with borrowed stories from other speakers, books and the Internet, but be sure to credit them appropriately. You can reap an endless supply of great stories by paying attention to the anecdotes others share. Start a story notebook or computer file so you can access them for the appropriate occasion. Anything that captures your attention can be...

Make Your Leadership Story Come Alive

In most leadership stories, there are five key elements that make a story effective, according to authors Richard Maxwell and Robert Dickman in The Elements of Persuasion: Use Storytelling to Pitch Better, Sell Faster & Win More Business (HarperBusiness, 2007): 1. Passion (the enthusiasm and energy with which you tell the story). 2. A relatable hero who gives your story a point of view and allows your audience to enter into the story in their own minds. 3. An obstacle or an antagonist who presents problems that must be faced. This struggle involves strong emotions that engage the audience. 4. A moment of awareness when everything changes for the hero (the problem is solved, and there is an emotional release). The audience learns from the story as it plays out in their minds. 5. A transformation that occurs within the hero, which improves his situation or allows him to make new discoveries. However, there are some important caveats about these five elements. First, your hero should be relatable – someone who’s similar to members of your audience. He cannot be Superman or a rock star, nor should you use yourself as the hero (unless you want to appear arrogant). Second, emotions should be the highlight of your story. Facts without emotions are dry, lifeless and forgettable. Don’t be afraid to expose life’s inherently raw emotions. Why does the hero care? Why does this story matter? Third, make your story realistic to achieve authenticity. While embellishment is sometimes necessary to a good story, provide realistic details to make it vivid. Finally, stories don’t necessarily have happy endings. People often pay...

How to Craft a Good Leadership Story

The most effective way to influence people is through telling good leadership stories that create emotional buy-in. Most executives and managers know this, but few find it easy to create a story that works. Daphne A. Jameson, a professor of management communication at Cornell University, has researched how language is used in business meetings. She has found that storytelling is an important way to resolve conflicts. Managers can effectively use narratives when direct action is difficult or impossible, stimulating people to solve problems among themselves. Stories are how we think. They are how we make meaning of life. Call them schemas, scripts, cognitive maps, mental models, metaphors or narratives. Stories are how we explain how things work, how we make decisions, how we justify our decisions, how we persuade others, how we understand our place in the world, create our identities, and define and teach social values. ~ Dr. Pamela Rutledge, Director, Media Psychology Research Center, Fielding Graduate University A story is “a fact, wrapped in an emotion, that compels us to take an action that transforms our world”, write TV writer/producer Richard Maxwell and executive coach Robert Dickman in The Elements of Persuasion: Use Storytelling to Pitch Better, Sell Faster & Win More Business (HarperBusiness, 2007). Infants organize their world in stories, even before they acquire language, according to Jerome Bruner, a research professor of psychology at New York University. While stories consist of the content of our thoughts, they also represent how we think. Bruner estimates that adults are 20 times more likely to remember a fact when it’s part of a story. Research tells us: 1....

Let Me Tell You a Story…

Stories are the single most powerful tool in a leader’s toolkit. ~ Howard Gardner, Harvard psychologist Do you know people who can masterfully tell the right story at the right time? Quite often, the best storytellers become our managers and leaders. Even if you have no designs on becoming a CEO or leading a division, you undoubtedly crave more control over your work, ideas, sphere of influence and others’ perceptions. Effective storytelling can help you gain more control, while also building employee morale, strengthening teamwork and defining how problems can be solved. You’ll find it much easier to develop original and effective solutions to everyday challenges. It’s in Our Genes In 1995, two respected economists estimated that 28 percent of the U.S. gross national product (GNP) was involved in commercial persuasion (to include law, public relations, psychology, consulting, education and marketing). For anyone involved in persuading others (i.e., everyone), survival depends on cutting through the noise and clutter to make the sale or persuade others to adopt our point of view. Storytelling sells and persuades because it’s an innate skill that has evolved over centuries – something we all know how to do. In fact, a storytelling gene (FOXP2), discovered in 2001, gives us the physical and neurological skills needed to speak words rapidly and precisely. We use these language abilities to form complex sentences in the proper storytelling sequence. Yet, some of us are better storytellers than others. Fortunately, practice can help us hone our skills. Why Storytelling Is Much More Than Charisma Cold, hard facts don’t inspire people to change. Straightforward analysis doesn’t excite anyone about a...